Wednesday, December 28, 2011


I haven't blogged about love in a while, when I think of love, I think of several things like family, friends, food, concerts, smells, Adele, comedy, men, traveling, the Creator and ???

First and foremost I love my mom and my brother. In my last write up Rachel Swan quoted me as a person, "who doesn't mince his words" , and I think not mincing words runs in my family. Yesterday my brother was throwing up, I asked him why and without skipping a beat he said, "its your cooking" . haha .. that fucker

I know it must be hard being a parent because I have put my mom threw a lot of shit, and threw it all, shes been there for us threw thick and thin. So I say to all my friends who are new parents, you can't go wrong with unconditional love.

I love love love my friends. I recently facebooked my little cousin who attended Haskell this past Fall and even though his football season didn't turn out the greatest, I hope he got to meet some nice people while he was there because even to this day, I'm still friends with all the Natives I ever went to school with. When you make good friends with Natives, they really are for life.

If I'm not careful, food will ultimately be the death of me. So to avoid an early age heart attack I know my eating habits are going to have to change. Who doesn't love a good cheeseburger right?

While growing up, I've always been a homebody and because of it, I missed a lot of great concerts like Madonna's, "Like a Virgin" , and so on. Of course when I got older I made it a point to see all the people I missed growing up in the 80's. My first memorable concert was watching Grace Jones at the Universe in SF. I was so fucked up drunk that night but the parts I do remember were cooler than shit. I think thats the way how people remember their concert going experiences?

I'm not going to lie, I'm a sucka for fresh fragrances, whether they be natural or store bought. A good scent tells a lot about a person which is why I love wearing anything fruity, pun intended.

Adele has really been rocking my world lately. Adele is this generations answer to Stevie Nicks and they are so lucky to have her. Her romance ballads eloquently capture all the emotion from being in a relationship, go girl, its good to know not all of us get over that shit so easily. At first when I heard of Adele, I thought she was just another White British hob nob trying to cover Black folks R & B music with her obvious hood Crenshaw name but as it turns out, shes legit.

Its been 9 years of comedy for me and I must love it because I'm still doing it. I have to admit, I'm a lot better then I was from when I first started out. There have been many ups and downs over the years but its been a great experience. I really do get a lot of joy from writing jokes because I never know what I'm going to come up with, I just know its going to be good. I hope thats not too narcissistic. ;)

It's raining men, hallelujah! The first time I ever saw a mans weenie in a porn magazine, I knew it was love at first sight, whats not to like right? I suppose I have managed to have a great sex life over the years because of my mantra for men, "be good to the weenie and the weenie will good to you" , those really are words to live by.

My comedy career has taken me to so many place and because of it I have gotten to meet so many people but sometimes I miss riding the Greyhound Bus and striking up conversations with interesting people. Once I rode a bus ride from Cali to Kansas, while at the Sacramento stop, I saved a womans life who was sitting right next to me because she was choking on her rice bowl. And really, all I did was give her one good slap on the back and boom, that rice was all over us. I didn't mind that she blowed chunks all over me because it was the experience and moment I cherished so much.

I love the Creator for helping me guide my life, so thank you Creator for all your blessings.

The last love I want to cover is ?????????? because I don't know it is yet. That's really how a lot of my loves have come into my life. I took a chance and did something I wasn't use to and boom, there it was.

Who knows the what the future bring, I just hope its filled with more love and happiness.



  1. if you cant love youre self. how in the hell are you going to love someone else? can i get an amen!

  2. Amen sista girl! Wasn't that Rupaul's closing tag line on her VH1 variety show?